Relationships can sometimes be difficult and the small elements of compromise and sacrifice that make it this way can actually be the key to success. While you are learning how to get your ex back try to remember this and know that done the right way the compromise and sacrifice are no problem at all.

Fixing a broken relationship is never easy but if you take the advice in this article, you should be getting your ex back within a week.

Believe me I know exactly how hard a relationship break up can be and the first thing you should do is to get over the negative question of 'why did my ex break up with me'? Start to look at the positive which at first is going to be finding out exactly what caused the break up so you can move forward.

But how do you do this? Actually the answer is very simple. You will have split from your boyfriend or girlfriend because:

The relationship became too comfortable or stale.

There wasn't enough of the real, hearty, original you left in the relationship.

Whichever one of the 2 it was, it's now time for a bit of honest soul searching to see if you were guilty of any of those reasons. I don't mean to sound harsh but the break up probably occurred because of something you did or did not do. Something drove your ex away and if you can be honest with yourself this simple method will reveal the truth and give you some great insight into what was the real cause and allow you to take the next steps.

Make a list of all of the things that could have been the cause.

Which were your fault and which ones were not?

Rule out the ones which were not your fault. There is absolutely nothing you can do about them now. Focus on the ones that you are responsible for and think about if and how you can change that specific problem. Maybe you see a pattern becoming clear? If you can begin to think of ways to fix these patterns and you are ready and willing to work on them, things are looking up already.

You are one huge step closer to getting back together with your ex.

If you follow these steps on how to get your ex back correctly it will involve being active. Don't just memorize this knowledge.

How To Win Back Your Ex

Breaking up can be a very painful experience for both parties involved. Heart wrenching, lonely and a time filled with sadness and self doubt. Feeling that the break up is a mistake can make the whole process even worse and often one that you wish to reverse or rectify. Maybe a big mistake on your half led to the split or things just weren't working and your other half instigated the seperation. But if you tread carefully along the right path, say the magic words and make the right moves you could win back your ex more easily than you think.


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Get Your Ex To Call You Back

If your spouse isnt calling you back its a real problem, right? Many people have been in the situation where they have left a ton of messages on their ex's answer machine and they just dont call. How can you begin to win back your ex if you cant even communicate?

Well there are some things you can say and do that will trigger a response and will get your ex to call you back. I will give you one good example and one bad example so you can see it clearly.

What not to say:

Never ever use the 'Emergency'.

"Hi Carla its John. Can you call me quick its an emergency and we have to talk"!

Oh my gosh, you sound like a bunny boiler or a deperado, give it up. Instead use something that will trigger curiosity and self interest. An age old technique understood by few but used by tons of shrinks to get feelings stored way down in peoples hearts.

Try this: Curiosity combined with Self Interest

"Hi Carla. It's John. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person for what you have done for me and for lifting that weight off my shoulders".

Before you know your phone is going to be ringing with your ex wondering "what did I do"? "What does he appreciate about being dumped"? "What weight did I lift off him"? None of the Curiosity or Self Interest techniques make you sound weird or needy. They simply allow communication lines to be opened back up and they give you chance to move things forward.

But be warned! Unless you have some more of the game plan ready for the next steps, you could be doing more harm than good by getting back with your ex or by getting them to return your call.